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I wish you the best of luck. I can accept her, and she's told me she can accept me The challenging part for me now is the idea of putting my kids through the brainwashing. But there are a lot of women who post here who have flipped from TBM to apostate. By those standards, I was a failure, my husband wasn't "good enough" - and my daughter had ambitious real goals that required a lot of time and effort.
My children started a new school this year and up until last week, my husband couldn't have told you what time they started or where to drop them off. Plan on her family trying to torpedo your relationship if you don't convert. I am married to an ER doc. All your beloved friends and family are in Seattle. My next serious boyfriend was raised Methodist but considered himself non-denominational Christian and people would comment on that instead of his character. But realistically, if she is not open minded enough to even listen to someone who has a contrasting view of the church - how will she not continually discount you and your lack of beliefs. Just talk to her honestly, and if you have to, use the old wonder of logic. If your relationship has gotten very serious, your girlfriend will probably try to find agreement in your faiths.