Twitter did not respond. To the two wondering sistersвYou both appear to be with loving, incredibly supportive men. He will have to wait outside if his children marry in the temple. All that being said, no one can tell you what is right for you except Heavenly Father. I am not one to be interest with his paycheck, since i am accountant myself. It does not come from common religion or personality or even values; it only comes through mutual self transcendence. What do you do while they are away. The common theme here form the complaining spouses is that few of them seem to have their own lives. All faiths have vocabulary unique to them.
Here are my thoughts as someone who grew up with a non-mormon father and as someone who married a non-mormon girl. Will you be open to me teaching my children my athiest point of view. But he's got to know the aggravation and pain that he likely will face. It sounds like you have found a good one.
And occasionally I have queried the wisdom of that choice. Are you going to keep the sabbath holy as a family, or is he going to take the kids out for pizza after church, leaving you home to observe alone. And yes, some people are unbelievably stupid about it. Helpful way to learn the facts in a fast and funny format. Just go ahead and ask for the definitions and treat it like learning a new language. I completely agree, but I think the critical part is that he needs to talk to her. By all means, I encourage you to try having those discussions and to make a mental note of when you would choose to walk away instead. I respect all doctors so much, they go through hell to be where they are and put up with so much stuff at their work too.
My boyfriend and I are both in medical school and it is so difficult to manage a relationship while surviving the class load. I think there's a chance you two can find a way to agree on a lifestyle and values. Is he aware that if your children are faithful members of the church they might end of marrying in the temple and he would not be allowed to attend the ceremony. My father told him it's never too late to leave whether we are married with kids or just engaged. I wanted to be able to fully share my faith with my spouse, but this expectation was now up in the air. Nothing less will do. There will always be difference between spouses. Mormons defintely play by a different rule set.